Sometimes they write the song for you

"So when you ask 'Is something wrong?'
I think 'You're damn right there is but we can't talk about it now.
No, we can't talk about it now.'
So one last touch and then you'll go
And we'll pretend that it meant something so much more
- "Tiny Vessels"
Death Cab for Cutie

Perception is reality.

A person can make any event or moment seem meaningful to you, if you are willing to believe it has meaning... even if he doesn't think that it does.

I find myself frustrated - he is being open, he is being honest - he doesn't want what I do. Yet sometimes it seems easier to be with a deceitful person - one who isn't honest, but gives you the perception that it matters.